Society & Folk
DO & DON'T IN NEUSS
A few aspects of life in a foreign country can be of surprise. There are a few do’s and don’ts to consider and one or two important points about living in Germany might be worth considering to avoid offence or a run in with the authorities.
Whether or not Germany issues resident foreigners with a document such as a green card, alien registration certificate or carte de séjour, it is a requirement to carry a passport or solid identification at all times. Citizens do have to be able to produce official identification in all sorts of humdrum situations though, such as collecting a package at the post office or when stopped by the police when driving. The latter is a situation where being able to show a driver licence is a must. It’s best to play the game even if stop-and-search is rare in Germany.
Superstition prevents Germans from enjoying birthday wishes in advance, because it is believed to bring bad luck. Also birthday gifts not welcomed before the actual day but belated congratulations are expected and widely accepted. Even for several days afterwards. One quirk worthy of mention is, when asked their age, most answer with their years plus one. Instead of saying I am, most respond: I will be, ich werde.
Mothers with prams
It’s customary and expected that the able-bodied people help women lift their baby carriages on and off the tram when there are steps. Most just adore the assistance offered and express themselves accordingly.
Time for quiet
Hours of rest are usually from 1 pm till 3 pm and from 10 pm till 7 am from Monday to Saturdays and all day Sunday. It is prohibited to disturb others through noisy activities such as mowing the lawns, listening to loud music or labouring. Many have ended up in court.
Crossing a red light
It is normal in Germany to obey traffic rules when driving. Even pedestrians do not cross a street on red light when the street is empty and traffic seems far away or simply is not visible. It is widely regarded as very rude to cross a red light on foot when children are able to watch adults jaywalking. Others will scold offenders and if police are in the vicinity, they will often reprimand or even hand out a fine.
Cyclists in town
Adults on bicycles should stick to the road or dedicated paths. Young children are allowed to ride on the pavement. Some cyclists however, frequently flout the law with impunity, contesting with pedestrians for control of the city’s sidewalks. Remember, Germans tend to walk relatively slowly and pedestrians on shared bike paths have priority. Here, some manic cyclists behave very dangerously.
The German motorways, Autobahnen, are famous across the globe for having no speed limit. That is partly a myth, since for many years vast stretches are in fact regulated. Sometimes, where it is free to speed, a slower driver may remain in the outer lane. It is forbidden to overtake on the inside. Grin and bear it; this is not the US.
German society took an early stance on recycling, which has also helped prevent discarded rubbish. Apart from smokers and late-night drinkers, people here usually don’t litter. Some exceptions unfortunately include open recreational areas and dog’s excrement. Some say the former is down to youths, the latter old ladies that cannot bend down.
By Vincent Green, Mar 12 2020
Many open spaces entice hikers into the surrounding countryside. Try heading out to the wonderfully peaceful and natural, reclaimed spaces along the Dutch border. The Ruhr region to the east provides more inspiring landscapes with hills and forests.